Showing posts with label Kagoshima. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Kagoshima. Show all posts

Friday, September 12, 2014

Onsen (Hot Springs) in Japan


From my first week in Japan, and at least once a week thereafter, I constantly received invitations to partake in this age-old tradition of getting naked in a hot bath with a group of complete strangers.
I started a part-time job teaching English outside of my university commitments and every Saturday, on the long drive back to the city after teaching kids out in the tea farms, my boss, a tough businesswoman in her late fifties would ask if I’d like to try onsen today.

I am all for immersing myself in a new culture and fitting in with the locals, but taking a naked bath with my boss just really didn’t seem appealing to me. I tried a lot of things in Japan- natto (fermented soybean sticky, nasty, spider-webby goo), all kinds of raw seafood, acupuncture, 40% alcohol made from sweet potato… the list goes on… but this was one thing I just could not bring myself to do!

There was one point where I went on a camp with 300 young people committed to international understanding (which was fantastic!), and the shower room was just a tiled room, around ten by five meters, with shower heads and taps spaced all around three of the walls. No dividers, no shower curtains, just a room full of naked girls. We were informed that showers may be taken between 6 - 8 pm. I seemed to be the only one who found this confronting. And I dealt with this by sneaking out at 2am to have a shower…

In around the third month of my exchange, I was invited by a group of friends to go and visit the nearby active volcano, Sakurajima. We met at the ferry terminal in the morning and enjoyed a steaming hot bowl of udon noodle soup on the 15-minute ferry trip. When we landed on the volcano, we hopped on a bus which circumnavigates Sakurajima and I stared in awe out the window at the stunted pine trees, the black, ashy soil, and the massive concrete contours that have been constructed to encourage lava to flow in an orderly, less destructive fashion.
We hopped off the bus at a look-out point where we could walk through the ‘volcano fields’, which had been flattened by the last big eruption, when the volcano connected itself to the peninsula on the other side of the bay.
After at least an hour of taking photos together in every pose imaginable, we hopped back on the bus that headed to the ferry terminal. But we had one more surprise stop. A hotel called Furusato Onsen Hotel. On reading the sign I started to panic a little bit… but maybe I could just sit in the lobby and look after everyone’s bags.
I started to explain to my friends that I really wasn’t comfortable with the whole onsen idea but they reassured me that there was nothing to worry about. I took a deep breath, told myself to toughen up, and decided that I would conquer this challenge.
We paid our money at the counter and were handed a little package including an A4 sized plastic zipper bag, a tiny towel and a white, cotton yukata (like a summer version of a kimono). I had no idea what any of it was for, but I bundled mine up and followed my group towards the elevator.
The doors closed behind us and I held my breath waiting to descend into who knew what sort of scene… I nearly fell over when the elevator moved sideways! Not quite sideways, but diagonally down. The novelty of this actually took my mind off the ordeal I was about to go through.
When the elevator doors opened, we split into male and female groups to go into our respective change rooms.
There were a couple of young women in their early twenties who had just finished undressing and were putting on their robes, while an elderly lady was walking naked from the shower to the changing area to put her clothes back on- which I noticed were folded and placed in the plastic zipper bag. And so it begins, I thought. I was pleased to see the showers had curtains, and there were also a couple of toilet cubicles. Perfect, somewhere to get changed into my yukata!
We exited out the back door of the change room and discovered the boys were waiting for us, also dressed in white robes. As a larger group now, we followed the signs down the corridor, stepping through a warm foot bath, and finally exiting out into daylight.

It was the most magical outdoor setting I had ever seen! Before us was a huge volcanic rock pool, positioned right on the edge of a small cliff which dropped a few meters into the sea below. It was a natural infinity pool, with steam rising off the water like a ghostly fog.
There was a massive tree growing out of the rock above a large, jacuzzi-sized alcove to the right, with its root system twisting around forming a ceiling. This little room had been made into a shrine, with a thick, twisted rope draped around the tree, connecting it to a torii gate. The sun was close to setting, and with the temperature of the air dropping, the heat of the water was quite magnetic. This is when I noticed that the people already in the onsen were wearing their robes! No nakedness with strangers, or my group of friends. I breathed out a huge sigh of relief, and as I stepped into the blissfully warm pool I felt completely at peace knowing I could enjoy this magical experience without any self-consciousness and especially content that I would be able to look my friends in the eye tomorrow.

As the sun descended, and the sky transformed through stunning pinks and oranges to dark blue, fire torches were lit beside the pool and I felt so incredibly fortunate to have witnessed each of these faces of Furusato Onsen. The lights of Kagoshima city sparkled on the other side of the bay and it was incredible to imagine that while every-day life rushed by over there, with all it's problems and responsibilities, this onsen sat here quietly, peacefully watching on, without a care in the world.

I managed to complete the rest of my year in Japan without getting publicly naked, although I did return to visit Furusato Onsen a number of times. 

It wasn't until a couple of years later, on a two week holiday to Japan, that I tried naked onsen for the first time. I was taken to Ibusuki by the mother of a friend of mine. We were buried in hot volcanic sand- dressed in yukata thankfully! After our relaxation time, we climbed out of the sand and headed back inside to shower and dress. Unfortunately, our belongings were on the other side of a public bath and this was the only way through to get them. I made the decision to embrace the situation. The time had finally come.
After my quick shower, I attempted to cover as much of myself as I could with the tiny towel I had been given and walked out into the pool-sized bath. My friend's mum was already sitting inside with her eyes closed and her head tilted back, enjoying the warmth of the water. I looked around and the half a dozen other ladies were doing the same, so I found a spot a few meters from everyone else and sat down.
Being blonde, fair-skinned, blue-eyed and quite curvy, I expected at least a curious sideways glance- but nothing. It was as though I was invisible, no-one's eyes ventured outside of their personal space... except mine! On realising this, I diverted my gaze to the water directly in front of me and stayed there quietly until I noticed my friend's mum was ready to leave.

I can't say I loved the experience, I think it would take quite a bit of repetition to reverse the effects of my conservative (prudish) upbringing, but I can say that I did it, and it wasn't terrible.

I might even do it again one day.

Just on an end note, I have been informed that Furusato Onsen Hotel closed down a couple of years ago due to bankruptcy, so if anyone knows Richard Branson, please feel free to pass this on, and ask if he has ideas of how to re-open the place :) Thanks.





Friday, November 9, 2007

Leaving Japan

These are some photos from my farewell parties and dinners.
I am so grateful to all my Kagoshima friends for watching out for me and being there for me while I was in Japan.

I miss our nomikais- Onoya, Bodega (jejeje) but especially Sunkus and Family Mart (Toto's office).

Thinking about all the things I miss from Japan, there's so many actually, but almost all of them are to do with the people I left behind... As much as I never thought I would say it so soon......

I wanna go back to Japan!!

(just to visit of course...jejeje)

Leaving Japan

Me, Toto, Silas and Anderson


Dinner in Fracasso- Rocio, Paula and Julia.


The bracelets- Rocio's farewell gift


The boys- Ramon, Toto and Silas

Alex, Rocio and Paula

Leaving Japan

Who said I can't do this in heels???


Playing extreme jenga at Big Ben (Rocio, Toto and Ramon)


My 2 best Kaikan girls- Julia and Rocio :)

Ryo-chan, there is no-one on earth who could meet this guy and NOT fall in love with him.


Anderson, we can all agree, is one of the hottest guys in Kagoshima... :D

Leaving Japan...

Do not enter (age restriction 20+) Rocio at Sunkus...

Our last Sunkus nomikai... =(

Julia just discovered what the elephant is really for...


Rocio is a little more traditional.


But at least they can agree on something =)

Tuesday, July 17, 2007

Can I go home now....?

I've been in Japan about 9 and a half months, and although I have beautiful friends, and a good life here, I think I've been hit with my first ever bout of homesickness!
I'm so tired, and now the summer is starting, it is SO hot and humid, I don't wanna leave my air-conditioned room!!
OK enough complaining...

I was in AMU plaza last week and I found a shop that sells VEGEMITE!! I couldn't believe it, really, but the other thing they sell from Aus is........ 'Weis bars'!! Of course I bought one, and after living here so long, the taste of natural fruit in a product tastes so SO good.
I hadn't really noticed how artificial everything is here before, but now, I can really tell.

I miss fresh fruit and vegetables, and those products that have "no artificial anything" labels on them.

I miss milk that actually turns solid if you leave it in the fridge for 3 weeks.
I miss bread that goes hard after 2 days, and grows mold after 5.

I miss being surrounded by boys who don't shave their eyebrows or carry hand bags.

I really miss English!!

But I know that when I go home, there's so many things (mainly people) that I will miss so much from Japan.
Oops- I was going to stop complaining......
:(

Friday, May 18, 2007

my girls

Last month new students arrived, and now there are lots of 'gai-jins' in Kaikan!! In the photo is Aimy (Malaysia), Julia (Germany), me and Rocio (Peru) and we make up the "Candy Mountain" girls! (For explanation, go to youtube and type "unicorn" into the search. It should be the first video, 'Charlie goes to Candy Mountain').
Since these guys arrived, we've been to Fukiage, Sakura-jima, Bodega, Onoya, we've gone to nomi-kais with companies we don't belong to, we've all been on TV a few times.... summing up, life is much more fun in Kagoshima now.

My study-load is intense this semester, but good, my baito is great! I don't think things could possibly get better!

Thursday, March 22, 2007

Back in hospital.....

I checked into hospital on Tuesday, and had 2 awkward days wondering what I was doing there when I was completely healthy :S

Then the surgery was on Thursday morning, the last thing I remember before my eyes closed was about 8 doctors doing different things to me (attaching tubes and monitors...), and then I woke up with some tubes still attached.
The worst one was through my nose, down into my stomach!! It was against my voice box so I didn't want to try to talk.... I kept gesturing to the nurse to take the tube out cos it was so uncomfortable and painful (I can still feel it now!!), but she said I had to keep it another 2 hours!!
So I recovered from the general anaesthetic faster than they had ever seen!! And she took it out after only 15 mins. :D

I was in hospital 1 week and was lucky enough to have so many visitors and flowers and gifts.
Paula (Colombia) and Andrea (Brasil) were my first visitors (see photo above), and they came with flowers and ice cream! I love these girls!

So I'm home now, I still have stitches but the pain is almost gone. The stitches come out on Friday!!

I'm so grateful to everyone who visited me in hospital, or sent me messages to my keitai.
Thank you so much!!
Besos e Beijos -x-

Monday, March 12, 2007

This week in my life......

My health check on Friday was perfect, so my surgery has been planned for Thursday.
I have to check into hospital on Tuesday cos if I get even a cough, they will have to reschedule- which I can't do cos I won't have time when my classes start.
I will be in hospital at least 7 days at the Kagoshima Daigaku hospital. I'm gonna be incredibly bored so to my friends: "please come and visit me!!!"

Onto another topic, Friday night was Kusa no Hana night as usual, but it was also the birthday party for Anderson, Pepe and Sayuri. It was a really good night, I was out until about 3:30, and as always, I had to work from 9am the next day. I don't know how I got through that day!! 
Last night, I was planning to have an early one, but Myjanne called me about 10pm to ask if I wanted to go out for drinks.... and so of course I did.... 
How many times have I said "I will never drink again!!"? Well I won't for a while anyway...

The pic above is before the tequila shots. Myjanne, Beth, Fiona and me.

Thursday, March 8, 2007

Back to hospital...

My wisdom teeth have decided that now is an appropriate time to put my life on hold and clean out my bank account.
After going to 2 other dental clinics that were too afraid of legal costs if anything went wrong with operating on a foreigner, I finally found one that would do the surgery.
Yesterday I went to Kagoshima Daigaku Hospital's dental clinic.
Three X-rays and a CT scan later, it was decided by a group of about 5 doctors that the surgery needs to be done ASAP.
We've decided that the best way is by general anaesthetic- that way they can take out both bottom wisdoms at the same time.

The only catch is that I have to stay in hospital for a week!! As I'm living alone and would be strictly forbidden to do anything that might be recognized as taking care of myself.
So I have to go back to hospital tomorrow for the check-up to make sure I can handle being knocked out, and then we will work out the best time to do the surgery.
The good thing is that I'm on uni holidays right now, so the only thing I'll miss is work. But I'm sure my bosses will understand......
The pic above is me with one of my dentists, and an x-ray of my teeth.

Saturday, March 3, 2007

Kyoto and Nara Trip


I just got home from an amazing 3 day university field trip to Kyoto, Nara and Osaka!

After getting absolutely NO sleep on Tuesday night, I had to be at the university at 7:30am on Wednesday to meet the group of about 60 international students.

I was crying uncontrollably as I'd just said goodbye to my Brazilian friend, Silas, who was flying home that day :(

We flew to Osaka where 2 buses were waiting for us to take us to Kyoto. Each bus had it's own annoying Japanese lady who talked non-stop for the entire 3 days, loudly over a microphone so we had no choice but to listen.

We saw 2 temples, and then checked into our hotel in Kyoto.

The 2nd day was free time, so 6 of my friends and I went to Universal Studios in Osaka.

The 3rd day we saw 2 temples in Nara, then back on the bus to Osaka airport with the Japanese lady. We had 2 hours free time in the airport, I really can't believe they did that! But amazingly all 60 of us were through the security zone and in the waiting area on time.

It was a really great trip, and the whole thing cost us 3000 yen! Airfares, hotels and food included! We're really lucky, I love Kagoshima University!! Do I have to go home....?

(Photo above is in front of Todai-ji temple, Nara)

Friday, February 16, 2007

Food Poisoning........ not fun!

I didn't think it was possible in Japan with how totally safe everything is here, but last Friday I somehow got food poisoning.... I went to Salsa class on Friday night, and then out to our weekly drinking place, Kusa no Hana, but had to go home early with tummy pains...
After a night spent in the bathroom, throwing up from midnight to 8am, I asked my tutor to take me to hospital. (I had food poisoning once before and discovered that no, it does not just go away by itself!)
I was at the hospital for about 3 hours, got a quick check-up and was sent to bed with an IV drip! A first for me!! And then sent home to bed with a big bag of drugs...
A week later, I'm feeling alot better, but still have a bruise where the drip went in, and a bruised jaw from trying to sleep on the sink all night...
Not fun! :p

Thursday, February 8, 2007

Snow on the Volcano!


It snowed! It snowed!

Last week we had 2 super cold days, and it did snow, but it was early morning so I slept through it.... but when I did get out of bed, I looked out the window and saw Sakura-jima dusted with snow!

To other news, I haven't heard anything from the creepy guy from last week, I think I scared him off with the boyfriend comment.

I had my first exam on Tuesday, and I have maybe 2 next week. The Tuesday exam was good, we just had to write an essay in Japanese on a subject of our choice.

I saw 2 movies, 'The Pursuit of Happyness' and 'Little Miss Sunshine'. I recommend them both! 'The Pursuit of Happyness' was so sad, but really well made and acted. 'Little Miss Sunshine' was just so funny, and it was non-stop drama/comedy, there was absolutely no boring bits! Go see them!!

OK so I have to go to work... but I don't wanna gooooo!!!!!! :'(

Abracos

Tuesday, January 30, 2007

about Sunday...


Every Sunday I am paid to supervise an English conversation class for 2 hours. The class is made up of adult professionals, and they each prepare a topic to present in english every week. My job is to listen, correct and ask questions in english.
After the class, we have coffee and biscuits in the lobby and everyone can relax and chat in Japanese.
Last Sunday, drinking coffee in the lobby, I noticed a dodgy looking Japanese guy walking around, and he kept looking at me. It looked like he hadn't shaved in 3 months!
I had a really bad feeling about him.
I stayed close with my group, and we all walked out together. This guy followed us, he was really close to me and I could feel him looking at me.
When we were outside, I put my group between him and me, and after a while he went back inside. Then I got on my bicycle and got out of there. I kept looking over my shoulder to make sure he didn't follow me, and I went home.
I got back to my room and started getting some homework done.... then after about 10 mins, there was a knock on my door.
It was that guy!!
He told me that someone at the place I work had told him where I live, and he was hoping that he could practice english with me. (I was a bit scared actually, but I know kung-fu!! :p )
He asked me a heap of questions in english (his english is pretty good). And he told me that he's just about to graduate from a medical degree and he will become a GP.
Before he left he asked if I have many boyfriends...... I said "no, just one... and I love him very much"......
Weird.
(Photo above is of my class)

Sunday, January 28, 2007

Australia Day!


So..... Friday was Australia day, and in the first time in my life I had class that day! No BBQ lunch in the sun with a few beers listening to Triple J's hottest 100... I had class from 8:50am until 2:20pm, lunch was re-heated chinese take-out from the night before, and the weather was cold....... but I did get to listen to about half of the count-down over the internet, so that's something.
And Friday night, another Aussie girl and I organised a little get together at an "English pub" in Tenmonkan (the party/shopping district of Kagoshima). There was 4 Aussies, and some Brits, South Americans, a Canadian, 2 USAians and a few Japanese. We all had a few beers to celebrate Australian day.... even though we couldn't agree on what Australia day is actually celebrating.... but we have it figured out now!! But the main thing is that we did a great job celebrating Australia!
So this picture is me with my very good friend Toto from Peru. In the background you can see a couple of English guys.

Monday, January 15, 2007

First post


I've been living here in Kagoshima since October 1st, 2006, so thats 3 months now.

I'm studying Japanese at Kagoshima University and living in the 'Ryugakusei Kaikan' (college for International students).


Since I arrived here my life has been a non-stop soap opera (when has my life not been a soap!?).... Every week brings more dramas and more interesting stories, but through it all I'm still smiling, having fun, and meeting the most beautiful people!


So I'm going to try to make notes of all the crazy things that happen here, cos if I don't write them down I will definately forget.


Melissa